Saturday, March 08, 2014

Mar 8, 2014: "what's a gay?"

So, now we're watching Dr. Horrible on Netflix.  E loves Dr. Horrible, both the show and the character.  I explained that the actor is Neil Patrick Harris, and  he's married to a handsome man and they have 2 kids who are adorable.  She asked how that happens, how 2 men have kids.  I said that he's gay and that gay men have to adopt children to have a family generally.
E: what's a gay?
Me: when boys love boys or girls love girls.
E: Well, I'm a gay then.  I love YOU, mama.
Me:  Well, it's not quite the same.
E: I love G.
Me: yes.  That would make you gay if you still loved her forever.  And that would be just fine.
E: Okay.

Why do people thinking explaining what "gay" means to their kids is somehow a challenge?  It's just all about pointing out that love looks different for everyone sometimes.

PS: she now wants to see pics of NPH and his gorgeous family.   Thank you, internet.

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